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When you are going through a divorce or custody battle, your relationship with your child should remain strong and protected. Unfortunately, there are times when one parent attempts to damage that bond by influencing a child’s view of the other parent. This behavior is called parental alienation, and it’s more common than many people think. We’ve worked with countless parents in Illinois who are facing this painful situation. It can be confusing, emotionally draining, and legally complex.
If you notice that your child’s behavior toward you has changed significantly and without explanation, if they express unwarranted anger or seem fearful around you, it may be time to take a closer look at what’s happening. Illinois courts take parental interference seriously. As family law attorneys, we help parents protect their rights and maintain healthy relationships with their children.
Parental alienation occurs when one parent intentionally or unintentionally harms a child’s relationship with the other parent. These actions include making false accusations, criticizing the other parent in front of the child, or blocking communication and visitation.
Illinois law is very clear about the importance of both parents playing an active role in their child’s life. Under 750 ILCS 5/602.7, the allocation of parental responsibilities must reflect the child’s best interests. One of the key factors courts consider is each parent’s willingness to facilitate and encourage a close relationship between the child and the other parent. A parent who interferes with that bond can face serious legal consequences.
Not all changes in your child’s behavior are signs of alienation, but some patterns should not be ignored. These include:
If these behaviors sound familiar, it’s time to start documenting your experiences and consider your legal options.
Illinois family courts recognize the harm that alienation can cause. If the other parent is interfering with your rights, you may be able to pursue a modification of the parenting order or seek enforcement.
Under 750 ILCS 5/607.5, Illinois law prohibits a parent from engaging in conduct that frustrates the other parent’s parenting time without good cause. Violations can lead to court sanctions, fines, and even a change in custody or parenting time. Courts may also order counseling for the child or both parents to repair the damaged relationship.
We often recommend early intervention. Waiting too long can make the alienation more difficult to reverse. The courts rely on evidence, so keeping a record of missed visits, inappropriate communications, and changes in your child’s behavior can support your case.
Addressing parental alienation can require more than legal steps. Your child’s emotional well-being is a priority. That is why we often recommend working with mental health professionals can help rebuild trust and communication. Family therapy, reunification counseling, or parenting coordinators may be involved, depending on what the court finds appropriate. We work with these professionals regularly and understand how to integrate their findings and recommendations into a strong legal strategy.
Parental alienation occurs when one parent influences a child to reject or fear the other parent without a valid reason. This can include bad-mouthing, limiting contact, or making false accusations. Under Illinois law, any behavior that damages the child’s relationship with the other parent may be considered alienation if it’s intentional and harmful.
Yes. Illinois courts can modify parental responsibilities or parenting time if there’s clear evidence that one parent is interfering with the other’s relationship with the child. The court may view this behavior as not being in the child’s best interest and may adjust custody accordingly under 750 ILCS 5/610.5.
Start by documenting every missed visit, denied call, or inappropriate message. You can file a motion with the court to enforce the parenting order under 750 ILCS 5/607.5. Courts can impose penalties and even modify the schedule if the behavior continues.
Illinois courts may consider a child’s wishes depending on the child’s age and maturity, but the court will weigh this against other factors. If the child’s preference appears to be influenced by one parent unfairly, the judge may assign a guardian ad litem or require psychological evaluation.
Parental alienation is serious. If you believe the other parent is harming your relationship with your child, we’re here to help. At SBK Law Group, we provide clear legal guidance backed by Illinois law and real-world experience. Contact our Downers Grove custody attorney at SBK Law Group by calling 630-427-4407 to receive your free consultation. Let’s work together to protect your family’s future.
