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Divorce can be a challenging experience, especially for children. At SBK Law Group in DuPage County, we never lose sight of the importance of safeguarding your children’s well-being as well as our client’s own emotional needs. In this article, we’ll share tips to protect your children from the hurt and uncertainty that divorce can bring.
When you and your spouse decide to divorce, it’s best to sit down and tell your children together, with all of them present. Have a game plan ahead of time. Research age-appropriate explanation. Decide together how you will address likely questions. This united approach demonstrates your commitment to their welfare. It shows that, despite the changes, you and your spouse can still work together for the benefit of your children, that no one is to blame, and that you are both still there for them.
Getting divorced is one of life’s most emotionally and personally upsetting events. However, if you have children, you must put their needs first and the focus should always be on them. Everything you do should be in their best interests. Regardless of how you feel about your ex-spouse, you should continue to be the best parent you can be and be a positive presence in your kids’ lives.
It can be difficult for children to acclimate to living in two different homes, which will take time. When the children are with you, have them focus on activities they enjoy, and do not dwell on any aspect of the divorce.
Never let them witness arguments or name-calling between you and your spouse. Furthermore, refrain from using your children as messengers; communicate directly with your ex-spouse through phone, email, or text to prevent additional stress for your children.
Regardless of your emotions or access to your children, it’s vital to consistently pay court-mandated child support. Children with separated or divorced parents experience more economic uncertainty, and you do not want to worsen the situation. Plus, Illinois has severe consequences for not paying child support, including fines and jail time.
The economic stability of children with separated or divorced parents is already uncertain, and failing to pay child support can exacerbate their situation.
Think carefully about introducing your children to everyone you date. Allow plenty of time before introducing them to any new partner you have. It could be traumatic if your children become attached to your new significant other and you break up.
If you’re preparing for divorce or have already initiated the process, it’s essential to have a dedicated and experienced divorce attorney by your side. Our DuPage County divorce attorneys at SBK Law Group are ready to work with you to achieve the best resolution for your case. Contact us today at (630) 427-4407 for a complimentary consultation. We will help you understand your legal rights, and work in partnership with you to navigate your path forward.
